Guide On How To Be A Good Husband To You Wife
Deep down every man no matter how we are perceived by our women wish to be good husbands to our wives, though some situations, conditions and external factors may not permit us to effectively do all those good things we wish to do to/for our wives as good husbands but we'll still strive to do the little we can to the best of our capabilities.
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Yes, there's no laid down rules/instructions or pathway to becoming good husbands to our wives, just as nobody is born good or bad everything has to do with learning and applying what have been learned so as to achieve a particular goal, same it is with becoming a good person in this case becoming a good husband and the opposite. In this blog post today, I'll share you something I consider a definitive guide and a well thought checklist to becoming a good husband to your wife. Hey! like I said earlier learning too has to be applied since what my wife likes and wants might not be what yours would like or want, so you learn what she craves for add it to this super definitive guide to becoming a good husband and boom! you're the best husband to your wife.
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For those who are unmarried yet, you could apply these to your woman but note your girlfriend is your girlfriend and not your wife yet, so know when to draw the line so you don't get burnt.
Strap on your seatbelt as we embark on the most awesome journey this year to becoming good husbands to our wives.
Practical Ways To Be A Good Husband To Your Wife
1. Be respectful: As much as a man values respect, a woman does too. As a husband, it is pertinent to realize that your wife is a human being, different from you. Do not expect her to know the things you know or act like you do. Respect and understand that she will have her own interests and things that she is passionate about. Never disrespect her parent and siblings.
2. Always keep to your promises: Do not say you will do a thing and renegade on it later after the mood in which you made the promise has passed. Stick to your words. If you tell her you are going to bath the kids for the night and tuck them in bed, follow it through.
3. Morality: Develop morally correct of behavior, attitudes and stick to principles. This will serve as a foundation for your marriage. Provide moral standard and belief in faith whatever it may be and do well to carry your wife along.
4. Be aware of your wife: Know everything about your wife. Her strength, weaknesses and fears. Know the things she’s capable of doing and what she cannot do. Understand all of these and work with her in achieving a successful marriage while taking in your imperfections as well
5. Be confident: A woman can smell confidence in a man even from miles away. Your level of confidence determines the way you will love and support your wife. Women count confidence in men as sexy because they will feel safe and protected.
6. Communication: There is no relationship without communication. Express your feelings to her and give room for her to air hers. Do not automatically assume she will do some certain for you because she is your wife. If you want her to do something for you, ask her. Communicate any ill that she may have done without raising your voice or resulting to abuse. Make out time to talk to your wife. Women like to talk especially with one whom they call partner. Listen to her because most times all she needs is just an ear to listen.
7. Be punctual: Be on time. When you schedule a time to meet up with your wife at certain place say for instance a doctor’s appointment or dinner, try to be there on time. Your time is no more valuable than that of your wife.
8. Be truthful, Always: Most men would roll their eyes at this but ask yourself. How would you feel if your wife hid certain things from you? Or you had to hear from an outsider a secret you wife should have told you? I can guess your answer. Make it a bait to always tell the truth to your wife. When you need to hang out with the boys, tell her whom you will be with and where you are going. This can literally save your life. Always be open.
9. Do not cheat. Ever!: This needs no extra preaching. Love is selfless. No matter how selfish human are, love over rules all forms of selfishness. A good husband never cheats on his wife. Forget all the excuses out there and reason to justify cheating. A man who truly love his wife would never think of hurting her in anyway. Work through your differences as a couple, always initiate ‘alone time’. Talk about everything and anything under the sun!
10. Compliments: Women thrive on complements, believe it or not. Be affectionate with your wife. Compliment her often, buy her flowers, and appreciate her. Always be on the lookout for things that will make her happy. Help her with chores, especially those she hates to do.
11. Mark Wedding Anniversaries and birthdays: Most especially Wedding Anniversaries. Show her you made the right decision in marrying her and you do not regret it one bit. You may not know this but wives take their anniversaries pretty serious. It’s a reminder of the very important decision she made with you. Celebrating must not necessarily be something elaborate as you could organize a dinner at home with a bottle of Champagne.
12. Spice up the Se.x: Do not let things in the bedroom run cold and dry. No. No and No! Always seek new ways to pleasure your wife as much as she does you. She is your wife and nothing is a taboo except that which she is not comfortable with. Allow her take the lead sometimes and let her guide you through her body, it is not a crime
The above isn't enough if you're not ready to put down your ego and attend to little little things, even gifting alone plays a huge role, know the type of gift that she loves and the right time for them.
Good luck as you apply these and many more to become the husband of dream for your wife, she'll never regret marrying you as you've already fulfilled her dream and becoming the best husband ever! Good luck
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